Introduction

My name is BlueLantern. You can call me Blue or BL. I am a young divorcee who chooses to spend time with Escorts, Massage Therapists, Strippers, Sugar Babies and women in general.

Why?
Why do I choose to associate with these "women of ill repute"? For all intents and purposes, I'm a single, male professional in the "prime of my life". I'm tall, I'm not fat, and I work out. I'd consider myself average in looks, not incredibly attractive, but not butt ugly either. I'm clean, groomed, and do not smell bad. I don't smoke, do drugs or have any addictions.

However at the same time, I don't have the patience to play the dating game. If I like a girl, why do I have to wait 3 days to call her after our first date? Why do I have to play coy and act ambivalent just to convince her that I'm worth being interested in? Why do I have to go on several expensive dates in hopes of getting laid, with absolutely no guarantee that she actually might say yes?

I don't drink, and so bars or clubs don't appeal to me. I tried online dating, but the fact that I'm divorced turn off many girls my age. I'm not looking to have a long term relationship or get married. I'm not planning on having kids anytime in the near future, and may choose to get a vasectomy somewhere down the line.

Why Not?
Why wouldn't I want to spend time with a young, sexually attractive woman? Someone who, with research, I am certain is willing to do and enjoy the things I like to do? Someone who, with research, I know is skilled in giving pleasure to their partners? Someone who is aware and knowledgeable about STDs, and is highly motivated to practice safe sex and protect herself as well as me?

There's always the comparison, which is safer:

• Having sex with a random drunk girl from the bar, who may or may not have been recently tested for STDs, who may or may not be on birth control and may or may not practice safe sex, or...
  
• Having sex with a professional who is routinely tested, almost certainly on some form of birth control, always practices safe sex and is highly motivated to stay clean and safe?

There's also always the possibility that said drunk girl may wake up the next morning, and not remember what happened the previous night, or feel ashamed of what she did. She could also go a step further and cry rape, claiming she did not consent, and because you did not get written confirmed consent with proof that she was perfectly conscious and not in any way influenced or incapacitated, you will be convicted of sexual assault and forever thereafter be considered a sexual predator.

At the end of the day, I can ideally save myself, time, effort, and energy by spending time with a professional lady, safe in the knowledge that I am extremely likely to get what I am looking for with no drama, problems or issues resulting from our encounter.

It's quite enlightening to take the time to get to know a professional lady. Not only are they beautiful, but often they are also quite intelligent, and personable. I've had great long conversations, just hanging out and talking with a professional lady over a nice and relaxing dinner. Of course this isn't for everyone. There's a lot of potential problems, issues, and pitfalls, but that's for another post.