Setting the stage

Whether you're a sugar baby meeting your sugar daddy at a high class hotel, an escort working an incall, or a sensual massage therapist working out of hotels, hotel rooms can come in a variety of shapes, sizes and styles. While set and cleaned by house keeping, they can sometimes come off as cold.


It can be a really nice touch to set the stage for your intimate encounter. It shows you took additional time and effort to think about your guest, and what their needs may be.

1. Candles. There's something really sensual about a candle lit encounter. The flicker of light, and soft flame make for a nice romantic setting. Since you never really know what the lighting may be in the room, candles can allow you to set the lighting exactly as you wish. Just be careful, they're placed out of the way, as it's never fun to knock something into a candle, or knock a candle on the floor and start a small fire.
2. Music. Grab an MP3 player, some portable speakers and make a customized playlist of sexy music. Whether it's some sexy jazz, hot hip-hop, or some top 40 favorites, just make sure they're not too distracting. Pandora can be a nice alternative, if you want to use a laptop. Just ask your guest for their favorite artist or song, and you'll get a whole bunch of similar songs. It's kind of odd, because sometimes, hotels may have a clock radio, or a music station on the TV, but often times, they may not have either.
3. Mouthwash and paper cups. Fresh breath is important. Nothing more unsexy than nasty smells coming from your mouth. Set out some mouthwash, and put some paper cups out so they don't have to reuse the cap that who knows how many people have used before you.
4. Unscented body wash, and shampoo. Depending on your situation, your guest may have a significant other at home. So it can be a bit unnerving to be using flowery girly body wash and then get a bunch of questions when they go home. Or even worse, arrive home reeking of sex, cum and lube. Keep it simple, with a bottle of each. While hotels may provide complimentary bottles, they may be scented.
5. Condoms. You should know my thoughts on condoms by now. Stay safe, wrap it up, and grab a whole bunch of different types. It can be fun to ask your guest to grab a condom, and see what comes up. 
6. Lube. A good water based, or silicone lube are great. Double check and make sure they're latex safe, and you'll be good to go. No one likes dry friction, so use some to keep things fun and wet.
7. Drinks. A bottle of wine or champagne, bottled water, or Gatorade. It's good to stay hydrated, especially during some strenuous physical activity.
8. Snacks. Some finger food, or nice snacks to break the ice or sate the hunger can be nice, especially if you plan on spending a lot of time alone together.
9. Sweet treat. Sometimes it can be really awesome to have a sweet chocolate or treat after a great orgasm. It's kind of like the little mint house keeping puts on your pillow, but better.

Depending on your situation, it may be good simply to ask your guest for their preference to add that extra personal touch.